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What to Know About Child Emotional Abuse
Written by WebMD Editorial Contributors
Medically Reviewed by Dan Brennan, MD on June 09, 2021
IN THIS ARTICLE
Understanding Child Emotional Abuse
Child Emotional Abuse Signs
Treating Child Emotional Abuse
Child emotional abuse is a pattern of parental behavior that impacts your child's
emotional development and feelings of self-worth. Emotional abuse includes the
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impact of negative talk as well as a lack of love and support. Learn more about
the signs, symptoms, and lasting effects of emotional abuse on a child.
Understanding Child Emotional Abuse
Emotional abuse isn’t always as obvious as physical abuse. While injuries leave
visible marks on a child, signs of emotional abuse may be more difficult to
identify. Emotional abuse may impact a child for the rest of their life.
Emotional abuse negatively impacts a child by:
Limiting their emotional abilities
Changing their patterns of behavior
Impacting their ability to concentrate and learn at school
Damaging their self-esteem
Providing a distorted view of what parents should be
Child emotional abuse includes yelling, criticizing, and negative attitudes. It's
also characterized by withholding love, attention, and nurturing.
Emotional abuse often goes with physical or sexual abuse as a means of
controlling a person. While it is damaging at all ages, emotional abuse is critically
harmful at younger ages.
Newborns, infants, and toddlers especially suffer from a lack of positive
interactions. Children who don’t receive the love and care they need may be
withdrawn and anxious. They might fail to develop basic social and language
skills early on in life.
Child Emotional Abuse Signs
Once you know the signs of emotional abuse among all ages, it’s easier to
identify it among children in your life. Children who have experienced child
emotional abuse may:
Be withdrawn, depressed, and lacking empathy
Be clingy to anyone who gives attention to them
Act out and seem like they have behavior problems
Have less fear than other kids of the same age
Stick very strictly to rules of any adult in a supervisory role like teachers,
doctors, and babysitters
Suffer from disorders related to sleeping, eating, and communicating
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Develop self-soothing mechanisms like repetitive motions or rhythmic
rocking
Wet the bed or struggle to potty train without persistent accidents
Show a lack of interest in interacting or communicating with other people
and lack attention to detail
Make comments frequently like, “Mommy/Daddy say that I’m always bad.”
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These signs may be symptoms of other cognitive disorders and conditions, and
should never be dismissed. If you think a child you know might be affected by
emotional abuse, reach out and ask for help on their behalf.
Signs a parent might be an abuser. Be aware of the signs a parent is acting as an
emotional abuser in their home. Pay attention to things like:
Placing unreasonable demands on a child that are above the child’s
capacity or ability
Including the child in arguments and conflicts or treating them as a
“battleground” in the marriage
Satisfying the parent’s ego through the child when the child is too young to
understand
Referring to a child as “it” instead of as he/she in conversations with others
Allowing the child to witness domestic violence in the home
Emotional abuse often breaks a child down. Eventually, children may:
Start to live up to the negative words being spoken to them
Stop believing good things about themselves
Give up and allow themselves to become the negative image being
projected onto them
It’s often difficult to prove emotional abuse because there are no physical marks.
In cases of child emotional abuse, witnesses to the abuse need to make sure
parents or caregivers are held accountable, and children get the help they need.
Treating Child Emotional Abuse
Parents who act out emotional abuse may have experienced abuse as children.
It’s a vicious cycle that needs a lot of strength to break. Child emotional abuse
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treatment is important for both children and parents in abuse situations, so
everyone can heal and move forward in a healthy way.
If physical or sexual abuse is suspected, or the emotional abuse is severe, the
safety of the children is the first priority. Treatment can begin after the child's
safety is secured. Treatment isn't a short-term solution and needs a long-term
commitment from everyone involved.
In some cases, medical care is necessary. Most of the time, children receive
therapy from a trained professional who specializes in child psychology. A
professional helps by:
Helping a victim of abuse learn how to trust again
Showing a child what healthy behavior and relationships look like
Teaching a child how to manage conflict
Boosting self-esteem and establishing a sense of self-worth
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Emotional Abuse: How Does it Impact Children? (webmd.com)
What are the negative side effects of too
much screen time?
From young children to working adults to even the elderly, most of us
Singaporeans get a fair amount of daily screen time from the numerous digital
devices that we own. We consume so much content from our digital screens that
it’s easy to forget the negative side effects of too much screen time. However,
with research showing that excess screen time can impair brain development or
even lead to long-term medical conditions such as diabetes, it’s time to stop
ignoring the risks of overdosing on our screens.
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The consequences of too much screen time
• Physical strain to your eyes and body
Spending long hours staring at a screen definitely takes a toll on your body,
especially your eyes. Excessive screen time not only strains your eyes and leaves
them feeling dry, but can also lead to retina damage and blurred vision. Myopia is
already a big problem that plenty of Singaporeans face and staring incessantly at
a screen only worsens existing conditions. Furthermore, being constantly
hunched over (like how so many people tend to do with their smartphones) also
affects your posture and can cause stiffness and pain both the neck and
shoulder.
• Sleep deprivation
The amount of screen time you clock has a direct impact on how much sleep you
are getting, given that the blue light emitted from digital screens interferes with
the production of the sleep hormone melatonin in your body. This is why using
digital devices right before bedtime makes it much harder for you to fall
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asleep. Research has found that Singaporeans aren’t getting enough sleep and
cutting our screen time certainly makes for a good solution to this problem!
• Increased risk of obesity
The passive, sedentary nature of digital device usage means you are depriving
yourself of physical activity and exercise. This contributes to increased weight-
gain, especially if you tend to snack quite a bit while watching TV. Furthermore,
the numerous fast-food commercials on TV also tempt many of us into eating
more unhealthily. Simply watching two more additional hours of TV each day can
significantly increase the risk of becoming obese.
• Susceptibility to chronic health conditions
The increased risk of obesity also makes you more vulnerable to chronic diseases
such as type 2 diabetes, heart disease and cancer. Scientific research has shown
that spending long hours sitting when using digital devices can cause a spike in
insulin and blood glucose levels, and also lead to an accumulation of fat in your
bloodstream. Spending less time on screens and more on being physically active
can definitely help you avoid these problems!
• Loss of cognitive ability
One of the scariest consequences of excessive screen time is its effect on one's
mental health. Too much screen time alters the very structure of your brain by
causing the grey matter that’s responsible for cognitive processes to shrink, as
well as deformity to the white matter that serves as the network to the brain’s
signal communication. This manifests itself in the form of poorer concentration,
weaker memory, slower information processing and weaker impulse control –
these effects are particularly worrying when it comes to children, whose brains
are still developing.
• Impaired socialising skills
Using digital devices is a largely solitary activity – we don’t have much real-life
interactions when we are preoccupied with what's happening on the screen. This
could lead to increasing anti-social tendencies and feelings of withdrawal. With
children in particular, this precious opportunity to develop important social skills
through playing with their friends is lost when they spend time on digital devices
instead.
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• Weakened emotional judgment
Too much screen time also affects your ability to register and process emotions.
Desensitisation to violent content is one particularly worrying side effect of
weakened emotional judgment. According to scientific research, exposure to
violent media content can also increase aggression levels, especially in younger
children and adolescents.
• Delayed learning in young children
When it comes to young children, the alteration of the brain’s structure due to
excessive screen time can impact their learning abilities. In particular, children
who watch more TV have more difficulty picking up languages – this delay in
learning can be as much as 50% higher for every 30 minutes spent watching the
TV. Letting kids watch educational programs may not be the best way to educate
them either – young children learn better by physically exploring, and letting them
watch shows passively hinders their brains from being active and engaged.
• Lower self-esteem
Finally, spending too much time in the virtual world of screens can also have a
negative impact on how you perceive yourself. The time you lose that could have
been spent on forming relationships with other people, discovering and honing
your passions, and creating new experiences leads to a weakened sense of self-
identity and confidence. When the bulk of your time is spent on social media
sites, this problem is exacerbated because you may end up worrying more about
your virtual self-image instead of your real one. For children and youth, the
dangers of cyberbullying and self-image issues are particularly worrying.
Perhaps one of the most worrying consequences of excessive screen usage is
how it sends your brain into an addictive state. The rush of the pleasure-inducing
dopamine we get from using our digital devices activates our brain’s reward
centre and insidiously makes us crave more. This is why many of us find
ourselves trapped in a cycle of screen addiction.
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What leads to screen addiction?
Addiction, be it in any format or to any substance, can be viewed as a
biochemical consequence where the body craves having the reward centre of its
brain constantly stimulated. Pursuit of pleasurable activities results in the
release of dopamine, one of the three major “feel good” hormones (the other two
being endorphins and serotonin). Just as how the body responds with a burst of
energy upon the consumption of a caffeinated beverage, the mind experiences a
sense of euphoria that's the result of a dopamine rush. The problem: the body
becomes desensitised to this feeling over time (par for the course with all forms
of stimuli). As a result, it seeks similar experiences of a higher intensity to make
up for it.
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This is essentially how screen addiction is developed within individuals. Digital
devices now occupy a significant area within our personal space and technology
has integrated itself into multiple facets of our lives. From the essentials like
food to luxuries such as home movies, practically all forms of consumer-level
technology are geared towards generating a rewarding experience. Addiction can
occur at any stage of life too; an elderly individual can just as easily fall victim as
a toddler. Frequent exposure, be it the result of a conscious or unconscious
decision, is enough to trigger a neurochemical cascade of reactions that may be
minor at first, but will in fact snowball over time if left unmitigated.
Information overload
Another reason behind our growing addiction to digital screens is the culture of
instant gratification that has risen over the years. As technology progressed, we
started to demand more results at a faster rate. Unfortunately, devices like the
smartphone and the tablet were perfectly tailored to suit this new demand.
Combined with the high-speed capabilities of the Internet, handheld devices were
able to spit out content like news, search results, and social media at an
astounding rate.
To the brain, information is like food. Unlike food however, information doesn't
take up any real physical space. As a result, the brain continues to consume
unabated. Does staying up to the wee hours of the morning while hopping
between YouTube and Instagram sound familiar? Even the consumption of
useless information (as long as when done in a relaxed state) can trigger a
release of dopamine. For the mind, the only constraint at play here is fatigue,
which is how late-night screen sessions typically end – tapping out due to
tiredness.
Now even though no one likes waking up feeling like they only had half the
amount of sleep they actually had, the connection it makes between the two
events (watching screens till late and feeling dog-tired the following day) is only
surface-level. What it DOES remember is that it had a ball of a time the previous
night, and with a new day comes another opportunity to relive (or outdo) that
exact experience. Hence, the cycle repeats itself.
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Seeking help
There is no uniform approach to combating addiction. Much of it depends on the
individual, the kind of lifestyle they lead, the resources they have access to, and
the severity of the issue. While seeking the opinion of qualified health and
wellness practitioners like the ones at the Active Health Lab can be helpful when
it comes to defining a workable solution, involving close friends and family works
just as well. Informing them of your situation and your commitment towards
remedying it gives them the opportunity to get on the same page as you, and it
becomes much easier to include them in your plans. You can also make an
arrangement to hold yourself accountable, such as imposing timed curfews for
screen usage and penalties for slip-ups.
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Optimising your environment to suit your goals is another step you can take.
Things like keeping your smartphone out of the bedroom, designating the dining
table as a screen-free zone, and seeking alternative activites to de-stress are
extrinsic measures that can keep you on track by eliminating temptation and
teaching yourself new ways to experience life.
Dr Richard Swinbourne, PhD., a senior sport dietitian and sleep scientist at
Singapore Sport Institute, shared: "It is also a good practice to switch on the
night mode and lower screen brightness when you are using your device in the
evening. This will allow melatonin to be produced earlier in the night, which leads
to improved quality of sleep."
Digital devices have become such an indispensable part of our daily lives that
getting rid of them would be almost impossible. Besides, it’s unnecessary to go to
such lengths – simply limiting your screen time can go a long way towards
protecting you from the consequences of excessive screen. The less time you
spend on your screens, the more time you have to spend with your family and
friends!
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